7 Effective Steps for Managing Holiday Stress

Holiday Stress Management in Walnut CreekThe holidays can bring a lot of stress — high expectations, one too many parties, out-of town guests,…

Learning to manage stress is the first step to prevent overwhelm.

Try these seven steps to effectively manage holiday stress:


  1. Get a good night’s sleep.
    Your body repairs itself during while you are sleeping. Most people need seven to nine hours a night, especially if you have an unusually busy day.Also, if you’re more introverted, being around people constantly, whether it’s crowded shopping malls, or a holiday party, you’ll also need more rest and quiet time than usual.
  2. Keep up your exercise routine.
    It’s easy to skip your workouts when you have a busy week. However, exercise helps you to use oxygen more efficiently and gets more oxygen to the brain. It’ll increase your focus, which may help you see solutions to problems rather than simply worrying about them.  It can also increase your stamina as you rush from the office to shopping to home to parties, etc.If  you do have a major time crunch, try a high-intensity 10-minute workout you can do at home. (We recommend these fitness reports from Transform FX Fitness.)
  3. Meditate.
    Meditation isn’t about chanting mantras. Meditation can be in the form of yoga.  Or you can take five minutes of deep breathing and clearing your mind.
  4. Manage the worry.
    When you feel your pulse start to quicken, count backwards from ten. As you count, focus on the situation. What has actually happened? Resist the urge to read anything more into the situation.
  5. Limit your alcohol intake.
    You might think that the glass of wine is relaxing your tension, but alcohol is actually a depressant. In can also be harder to face another busy day if you’re recovering from a long night.
  6. Enjoy relaxing activities.
    Stress, noise, people can rob you of your energy. Do something you enjoy that’s relaxing as well like painting, reading or listening to music.
  7. Pre-book your massage.
    Look forward to time just for you by scheduling your massage early.  Think about it as a reward for getting through a stressful holiday season!

It’s no wonder that a time that’s meant for giving and celebrations, we might forget to take care of ourselves first.  Prevent as much holiday stress as possible by taking these seven steps.


What’s your favorite way to prevent holiday stress?

10 More Stress Busters


Last week, we listed 20 Stress Management techniques you can do in between massage sessions. Here are 10 more to try:

1. Play racquetball or tennis.

10 Stress Management Tips Walnut Creek CA2. Take a nap, even if it’s only for 10 minutes.

3. Take your breaks at work. Get outside or do simple stretches for 10 minutes.

4. Laugh. Watch comedies and read humorous books.

5. Try autosuggestion. Frequently repeat a suggestion to yourself such as “Head tall” or “Neck relaxed.” You don’t have to do anything, just say the words.

6. Take a warm shower, stretching your neck and shoulders slowly in the warm water.

7. Brush your hair from each temple to the base of the skull, and then down the center of your head.

8. Take a weekend, or even a morning, away from obligations and worries.

9. Express your creativity. Write down your memories or create an art project.

10. Honor a time and space for your own relaxation. Regular massage is a great way to develop this nurturing habit.


Which stress buster is your favorite technique?


20 Stress Busters


Get more of out your massage by managing your stress in between sessions. Here are 20 ideas for you to try:

1. Set aside time to talk to your family and friends about your concerns.

2. Practice focused relaxation. Sit comfortably, noticing where you feel discomfort. Breathe slowly into these areas.

3. Make a list of people and things you are grateful for.

4. Set boundaries at work and home.

Stress Management Walnut Creek CA5. Meditate. Take a class or try out a group.

6. Bike, jog, or just take a 10-minute walk.

7. Dance! Take a ballroom dance or just have some fun in your living room and crank up the music!

8. Massage your aching neck or back.

9. Stretch. Ask your massage therapist for some suggestions or review the stretching exercises in our blog.

10. Take a yoga or tai chi class.

11. Have a cup of caffeine-free herbal tea.

12. Practice deep, full body breathing if you can’t sleep.

13. If possible, take action to change situations that are troubling you.

14. Relieve yourself of responsibilities that don’t feel right any longer. Saying “no” does wonders!

15. Try new things, like a new , nutritious and tasty food.

16. Assign yourself a time to “fret” — then move on to your day-to-day activities.

17. If you feel that stress threatens to overwhelm you, seek a professional counselor.

18. Take a hot bath. Add several drops of essential oils like lavender or ylang-ylang for relaxation.

19. Try biofeedback.

20. Take a painting, writing or photography class.


What are you favorite ways to de-stress?


3 Easy Ways to Reduce Stress

Pleasant Hill Massage for StressWe all have felt the effects of stress: strong emotions, tense muscles, increased blood pressure. Maybe it’s financial issues, a family member was ill or you were in a car accident that caused the stress.

Other times, it’s every day activities like traffic, construction noise outside your home, deadlines at work, or other daily challenges. We may not consider daily situations as crises, our bodies can react the same way to stress.

Muscle tension is one of the symptoms we experience when we’re stressed. Your shoulders and neck feels tight. Maybe your jaw feels tense & get a headache.

So what can you do to reduce the stress of everyday activities?

  1. Go outside.

    Sunlight & fresh air can lift your spirits.

  2. Before you go to sleep, write out your to-do list or journal.

    Do you have trouble going to sleep at night? Writing out all of your thoughts before bedtime can calm the mind & help you get a good night’s sleep.

  3. Get a massage.

    Massage is proven to decrease muscle tension, increase blood circulation and decreases insomnia. Massage triggers the relaxation response, which is exactly what’s needed when you’re experience a stressful time.

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Lifestyle Recommendations


Stress is not necessarily a bad thing, and can actually be a stimulus for
positive change and growth. But excess stress can be detrimental. Here
are some tips that can help you reduce the effects of stress in your life.


1. Set boundaries at work and home. Remember one person can only
do so much. Choose to let some things go and give yourself wholeheartedly
to those you keep. Encourage yourself to say “no” when
you need to.


2. If possible, take action to change situations that are troubling you.
Know when to face up to the things that are causing you anxiety and
when to let things go. Ask for support if you need to.


3. Set aside time to talk to your family and friends about your concerns.
Let them know you are feeling anxious or pressured. Use “I” statements,
for example, “I feel stressed. I have deadlines at work and feel
I can’t keep up at home.” Your loved ones will appreciate the chance
to lend a hand as opposed to being blamed.


4. Honor a time and space for your own relaxation. Be willing to “stop
the world and get off” even it’s only for half an hour after work every
other day or a two-hour walk once a week. Make a commitment to
yourself that nothing encroaches on.


5. Try new things, like a new, nutritious and tasty food — or even a new
bodywork technique like Reiki or stone massage!


6. Assign yourself a time to “fret.” Then get on with your day-to-day
activities with enthusiasm.


7. Take a painting, writing or photography class. Check the newspaper,
colleges, community centers and bulletin boards to find one.


8. Take your breaks at work. Get outside for a walk or do simple
stretches for 10 minutes.


9. Laugh. Watch comedies and read humorous books. Get together with
people who know how to look at life on the light side.


10. Take a weekend, or just a morning, away from your obligations and
On your getaways, leave work and worries behind. If that’s
difficult, try writing down your worries or “to-do’s.” Then tuck the
list away, knowing you can get back to it after your time away.


11. Express your creativity. Write down your memories, grow flowers
and herbs, or knit a sweater.


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