Have a Weekly Practice of Reflection & Observation to Keep Your New Year's Resolutions

Now is the time of year when we all put ourselves under a microscope. After some time spent reflecting on the year just past, we observe the things we would like to do better in the next one. “I’d like to shed some pounds”, or “I’ll be better about balancing my budget”, “exercise more”, “eat better”, and so on.

Healthy New Year's Resolutions


While these are all great ideas, the typical new years resolution doesn’t last. I’d like to encourage you to spend the next year practicing this sort of reflection on a weekly basis.

Setting aside some time once a week to put just the previous week under the microscope. Maybe your time last week was spent heavily on work and you and your family are now feeling drained. And maybe your next week will be spent heavily on nurturing yourself and now your bank account is a little low.

The one after that may be spent mostly on family and getting organized. You can start by finding a quiet place and lighting a candle, using some essential oils or burning insence to set the intention that this time is for you. Using a journal or just taking mental notes, take inventory of your last week.

This weekly practice of reflection and observation can help us be more aware of what is out of balance in our day to day lives and creates a life style that supports us in achieving all of our goals. Finding an accountability buddy to start thus practice with you can also reinforce your new weekly routine.

May your new year be filled with health and happiness and I wish you all the best.


Gina Tibbs, Walnut Creek Massage TherapistYour partner in health,
Gina Tibbs

7 Effective Steps for Managing Holiday Stress

Holiday Stress Management in Walnut CreekThe holidays can bring a lot of stress — high expectations, one too many parties, out-of town guests,…

Learning to manage stress is the first step to prevent overwhelm.

Try these seven steps to effectively manage holiday stress:


  1. Get a good night’s sleep.
    Your body repairs itself during while you are sleeping. Most people need seven to nine hours a night, especially if you have an unusually busy day.Also, if you’re more introverted, being around people constantly, whether it’s crowded shopping malls, or a holiday party, you’ll also need more rest and quiet time than usual.
  2. Keep up your exercise routine.
    It’s easy to skip your workouts when you have a busy week. However, exercise helps you to use oxygen more efficiently and gets more oxygen to the brain. It’ll increase your focus, which may help you see solutions to problems rather than simply worrying about them.  It can also increase your stamina as you rush from the office to shopping to home to parties, etc.If  you do have a major time crunch, try a high-intensity 10-minute workout you can do at home. (We recommend these fitness reports from Transform FX Fitness.)
  3. Meditate.
    Meditation isn’t about chanting mantras. Meditation can be in the form of yoga.  Or you can take five minutes of deep breathing and clearing your mind.
  4. Manage the worry.
    When you feel your pulse start to quicken, count backwards from ten. As you count, focus on the situation. What has actually happened? Resist the urge to read anything more into the situation.
  5. Limit your alcohol intake.
    You might think that the glass of wine is relaxing your tension, but alcohol is actually a depressant. In can also be harder to face another busy day if you’re recovering from a long night.
  6. Enjoy relaxing activities.
    Stress, noise, people can rob you of your energy. Do something you enjoy that’s relaxing as well like painting, reading or listening to music.
  7. Pre-book your massage.
    Look forward to time just for you by scheduling your massage early.  Think about it as a reward for getting through a stressful holiday season!

It’s no wonder that a time that’s meant for giving and celebrations, we might forget to take care of ourselves first.  Prevent as much holiday stress as possible by taking these seven steps.


What’s your favorite way to prevent holiday stress?

10 More Stress Busters


Last week, we listed 20 Stress Management techniques you can do in between massage sessions. Here are 10 more to try:

1. Play racquetball or tennis.

10 Stress Management Tips Walnut Creek CA2. Take a nap, even if it’s only for 10 minutes.

3. Take your breaks at work. Get outside or do simple stretches for 10 minutes.

4. Laugh. Watch comedies and read humorous books.

5. Try autosuggestion. Frequently repeat a suggestion to yourself such as “Head tall” or “Neck relaxed.” You don’t have to do anything, just say the words.

6. Take a warm shower, stretching your neck and shoulders slowly in the warm water.

7. Brush your hair from each temple to the base of the skull, and then down the center of your head.

8. Take a weekend, or even a morning, away from obligations and worries.

9. Express your creativity. Write down your memories or create an art project.

10. Honor a time and space for your own relaxation. Regular massage is a great way to develop this nurturing habit.


Which stress buster is your favorite technique?